Gently tugging at my arm, she whispered, “My mom hit me.”
Standing in the middle of the park with kids scattered, running around, I don’t think my mind was fully registering the words, barely audible, coming from the little girl’s mouth. I bent down, trying to understand exactly what she meant. She continued, lifting her shorts, revealing the line of bruises down her leg. She said there were also bruises on her bottom, and that it hurt to sit down. She was about to show me those bruises, but I stopped her, asking what exactly happened.
“My mom hit me, again and again, screaming that she was going to beat me until I bled.”
When I asked her why her mom hit her, she said it was because she didn’t go to her tutoring class and stayed at home instead. I can imagine that her mom must have had a difficult time controlling her temper after finding out that her daughter had not gone to classes that she paid for with hard-earned money. At the same time, I cannot imagine my mother hitting me until I bruised.
Talking with the counselor at the school, asking him what the school does in situations like these, we realized the difficulty in really helping this child. The counselor explained the protocol, saying that the steps that the school usually takes include first talking with the child to find out the story from the child’s perspective. If severe enough, the teachers call the parent(s) in for a meeting talk with them. In cases which the abuse continues, the teachers then call child services. However, the situation is trickier with younger kids, because their memory is sometimes distorted and sometimes can’t grasp the whole picture of what occurred.
Please pray for wisdom in dealing with this matter. If the little girl is indeed being abused, who will speak out for her?
This little girl comes also has a brother who comes to the park. He never plays with us, and from the things we have heard about him, he is definitely heading down the wrong path. As the little girl hid behind me, she told her brother not to hit her. I didn’t actually see him hit her, but he said to her, “It’s okay to hit you.” I told him very firmly that it was NOT okay. He smiled and walked away. Whether he was joking or not, I couldn’t tell. Let us pray for God’s special protection over this little girl.